Yeah I have done counseling as a couple and the odd time I went on my own, it was all about the A and the fallout. She did the old -" lets look at your father figure " ( I have a great father )
Since reading Dbing I see the importance of getting a good counselor and after sleeping on things I see maybe the sad feeling as a breakthrough. Sooooo come monday maybe I will troll through the yellow pages.
Thanks for your thoughts.
Maybe if they were to anaylse all us Ws who have had A, they will find this trait to be a common one. This being the case - did you husbands ever stand a chance of a good marriage. Could be the cards were stacked against you from the start.
