Thanks for that, really. You're right that in general I want to avoid R talks, and you're definitely right that I shouldn't bring up babies and such...
I guess I was thinking that the email would be a pre-emptive move. I am highly nervous about showing up next week without the air being cleared in any way, if that makes sense. If I say nothing before arriving, I am concerned that he will say something harsh to me. If I say something first, then it's nice and validating, and hopefully takes the edge off of my arrival, for my sake more than his.
OK, so at this point I will send nothing, and say nothing, unless he reaches out first. I will be staying dark through Tuesday, though I highly doubt he will hold out that long. At the very least though, I am going to need to remind him that I'm coming on Thursday. He gets so frustrated with the dates. Anyway staying dark on Monday will be good as he will hopefully realize that I'm in Dublin that night, and am not reaching out to him...
I have a feeling he will call me by tomorrow though. I can feel something brewing with him.
Anyway thanks for the reality check.
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
