Bagheera, I will try to read over your suggested threads.
on a positive note I have been wanting to try an experiment of my own for quite some time and never could get myself to do it.
DW always said that I never give her enough opportunities to say "yes" and always ask at wrong time/ wrong way so it leads to high percentage of failure. She feels this gives her an unfair "fail rate." She seems to imply that she is in the mood 30-40 percent of the time, it's just that I'm always initiating during the 60-70% she is not.
So, I always wanted to test her theory and either prove her right or wrong. If I initiate 100% of the time will our sex life increase from 10% to 30%??