Possibly she just wants the sense that they will stick.
Hi Breton39/Lodo, I hope your right. Odd thing is, I'm beginning to see changes in myself. I really was a jerk when I was married. I think my ex's love language is service and gifts. I was thinking the other day how when we were married, she would make comments about me leaving a mess in bathroom in the morning when I was getting ready to go to work. It's amazing how little things matter.
Today when she came to pick up our daughter, she asked if I wouldn't mind dropping her/our daughter off at her place as she was feeling tired. This is the second time in about a month she has asked me to do this - so I did and she left her SUV at my place. So I am going to get up in the morning and wash/clean her car. Yesterday we went to the park after work and had a good time running around with our daughter. We then went shopping for a gift for a baby shower she is attending tomorrow.
Overall, we have been having good conversations. I've been real good at not calling her and letting her initiate the call. I've notice that she is calling me a lot more in the mornings before work since I've started this "no first call policy." It's still tough sometimes as I still miss her a lot at times, but I've notice that I am finally getting to a place where I can function more normally without feeling sad or depress so frequently. That doesn't mean I don't have my moments, but overall I'm getting a much better grip on life.
The inspections went well for the loft and I cut the check today for the down payment. The closing date is at the end of the month. My ex told me that I am responsible for decorating our daughter's new bed room. I'm taking a couple of days off of work at the end of the month to paint, install some flooring, move furniture, etc. I don't know how I'm doing it at times, but I know that these next few months are really going to test my resolve/faith to reconcile our marriage.
But overall, things are going good. I will keep you all posted. Off to bed as it is really late up.
