My wife left me 5mths ago and initially it waw pretty tense between us. In the initial few weeks after the seperation, I felt that she was made of ice the way she interacted with me.
I deciced early on to treat her with respect, kindness and love no matter where this road went.
We are now slowly rebuilding our relationship as a friendship and who knows where this will lead.
I strongly suggest that you take the high-road whenever possible and behave with dignity and honour. Read "divorce remedy" and work out a stragegy on how you will move forward with your situation.
You will get a lot of support here and meet many people with similar challenges and we can work through this together.
Good to meet you. Clayton
H - 39 W - 38 M - 10 years, Dated 1 LYBNILWY - 5/17/2008 Moved out - 5/18/08 no kids - 2 cats