welcome marriedcrazy - can we get a male perspective on this thread!? Im sad and angry right now . Phone rang . I let machine pick up .H leaves message "hey S11, D11, S14, it's (says his name)...I mean your dad. Want to let you know Im here in Columbia, MO tonight for Mizzou game. I made it safe and we are staying in $100,000 RV outside stadium. Its really cool! Dont forget to watch the game tommorrow night! Love you guys, bye". YEAH, JUST RUB IT IN TO THE KIDS YOU WALKED OUT ON AND HAVE YOURSELF A GREAT F$#@%ING TIME AT THAT GAME BABE!!!!!!!
I read your sitch in another post. I see that you're dealing with an alcoholic. Difficult at best. My W is an alcoholic; been to rehab; the AA meetings, relapses, switching out one addiction for another and right now I think it's sex.
have you thought about finding an Al-anon meeting? It will help with detachment as well as giving you insight into the alcoholic mind. For even better insight, an open AA meeting will allow you to interact with recovering alcoholics who may help understand even better.
