Has a text conversation with H earlier this evening.
I told him that the kid moved out. H asked how S felt about that and I said I did not think he really had any feelings about it. I also told H that S took me out to dinner and that we had not done something like that in ages and I did tell him that S & I really do get along.
I told S that the kid should have thanked H or I for allowing him to stay here. S said he did thank him and I said well, he should have thanked us adults for allowing it as I thought that was rude.
He moved in with his girlfriend who resides with her parents.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
I don't think I will have weekends off after tomorrow. It will be tough and H might have to be relied upon a little more to take the girls places as well as doing some other things.
I heard from him yesterday late afternoon but nothing lastnight. Of course he would never text me while ow is around.
He will be here today, tomorrow and probably Monday as there is no school due to Columbus Day. My son told me that they are not allowed to refer to it as Columbus Day. He said the teachers at the high school told the classes this last year and they must refer to it as a Fall Break Day. Sure enough, I looked at the school calendar and it does say Fall Break Day.
The friend is gone and for the last few nights, it has been very quiet around here. Hard to believe he finally left.
Time for me to run many errands this morning. This should be fun with me limping around. The girls are going with me so they should be a big help.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Wow MWG that is great that your s's friend is finally gone. What a relief for you.
Working weekends can be tough. I work on Sunday's right now and have Saturday's off, mostly because I save on childcare during the week. Less days to pay for.
Hopefully your feet will get some rest. You could try putting those gel pads inside the shoes. I have heard those work great!
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
I bought the gel pads today. I hope they work as I am so wiped out from the standing and just overall tired.
I need a Mr. Mom around my house.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
H came over today and just now left with the girls. D14 wants to use her birthday money and asked if he could take them to the store. Of course he said yes.
Once again, he was not in a good mood when he came over, and he seemed to have some trouble just moving around, as if he had lots of aches and pains. I asked him if he was okay and he said this or that hurts. Must've had a wild, wild night. Just kidding but he is not in a good mood like he was a week ago.
I guess I will have to see when he comes back if his mood gets any better.
You can tell the last thing he wanted to do was go out shopping with the girls.
He says he is sick of driving but of course the only driving he seems to do is coming over here and going back there.
I'll check in later.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
H just left but while he was here and when he was ready to leave, he just kept holding on to me, kissed me like crazy, said he loved and missed me.
I am like--why does he have to go if he is so passionate about the way he feels about me?
His blood pressure reading is very high--167 over 102. He said he has not been feeling well and asked about calling the doctor, the procedures, etc.
When he says he is probably going to call the doctor, he is in bad shape.
I am concerned about the blood pressure.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
How do I keep hanging on-well, I would love to say just stay home but I do not say a thing. I do not want to put pressure on him as he has enough of that. I don't know if other woman is pressuring him and I can only assume she is.
Yes, I do get tired of this stuff but there are also times when I have seen him in a bad mood and I am glad he has somewhere to go but I have to accept him for the way he is and I do but sometimes it is hard to watch them go thru all of these phases.
Remember, Glam, with God, nothing is impossible.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
