Thanks G! Definitely enough questions for me? Ok, question for anyone that knows about this stuff. I have AOL and it saves email if you want. I had made a couple folders for the homeschool, halloween costumes, etc. I was just saving a password tonight (always do that) and i noticed another folder had been created: SavedIMs--could that be something my H did b/c I didn't and I know the kids don't know how to do it and wouldn't do that. You know I have that theatre friend that ims me and now I'm thinking maybe he saved one or several. He emails me a bunch and I'm usually doing stuff or the kids are on the computer, and I know my friend emailed at least once when H was here in the same room, but H didn't say anything. Do you think I'm being paranoid that H might have saved some of my ims from the friend? I went in and the other folders are full of emails and that one was completely empty btw. That just creeps me out? (They are like Hey, how ya doing? kind of ims usually.... Karen