If you want me to be honest Sandi2.. I am actually questioning myself on whether the texting "poked" him enough to file. Christa's little "project" here has me questioning myself. Was it the "right" thing to do. My honest answer is yes.. and no.. right now. I am happy with the "outcome" I just hope Christa is. She seems to be in a little better place.. that's all I can ask for. I can "see" her starting to poke thru.
"instead of this mean old hateful Sandi....lol."
I have never called you mean.. or hateful.. I have implied you are old. We are just way different. And yet at the same time.. not so much. Lets meet in the middle somewhere. Like Christa's post's.. or anyone's post.
"Seriously, hope for the best.....plan for the worse. Have a "way out" strat."
This is key.. back out gracefully.
"Be a confident woman and don't let him make you cry."
Don't show him too much confidence.. he can't make you cry.
Walk into breakfast knowing that things may go to "suck". If things don't "suck".. you win.
Be you.. nothing less.. nothing more.
If nothing less.. tomorrow is the day you start all over.. building something new.
Who do you want to be? What do you want to be?
You have everything stacked against you.. and yet you have everything going for you.
Time will tell... it always does.
Now...
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
