He is either really trying to smooth things over and avoid a conflict by being nice, or he is totally insensitive and doesn't know how important that letter was to me...
IMO he doesn't know how to respond without letting you down. All the guys here would kill to get a letter like that, so we are biased. You called him on the carpet about what's next. If he's not sure what's next in his mind then he feels a lot of stress. Try a little different approach - after asking him if he read your letter, then just ask why is it so hard for you to answer. Don't say anything, sit on your hands, bite your tongue. If no answer just say it would mean a lot to me if you could tell me what you are thinking (not feeling.) If he doesn't answer again, then say something like, one of the things I find attractive about you is how you tell me things (make it work for your sitch). Guys also find it easier to talk if we are doing something, especially with our hands - eating, using tools, building something. You are frustrated, that's a form of anger so be careful of your emotions. You can handle it. Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
