My H is "confused" to the point of immobility. The fear of making a decision and it being the wrong one paralyzes them and when they have unresolved issues on top of the infidelity, that makes for a particularly nasty combination.
Same here. When we were both with the C, the C said she was paralyzed with fear. That she was afraid of making the wrong decision. So much alike.
Karen,
Still the LRT. Just a little nicer about it.
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A warrior does not give up on what he loves, he finds the love in what he does
hey my neighbor glad to see the wind didnt blow ya away today! and thank you for the hug, even in this internet world, I so needed it today!
you are so amazingly strong, as I said to another ks neighbor here today I pray for your wife to see what she truly has with you!
today we had a bank robbery in the town I grew up in, newton, suspect runs, mcpherson county, stalls out. whatever, I know you are further away from here, but it reminded me of you, I lost a DEAR friend a couple years ago, sherriff, did the special duty, shot. I was so glad today that you posted, so I know you are ok. that also made me think, of what kind of wife you truly deserve...
again big hugs and thank you. I mean it!
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
Yeah I remember the sheriff getting shot and killed. Changed the law for the better though. Shame it had to happen. It was a bad year for the KS cops. So many got hurt and killed. Have not heard about the bank robbery yet, probably tomorrow when I go to work. Thanks for caring BG, you never know the day you will not make it home.
No, I'm not really that strong. Grounded yes. Keep on moving Fwd. BG, I hope the best for you. Glad to hear your concern about the job. I hope everything will turn out the best for you. I wonder also about what kind of W I deserve. See what happens.
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again big hugs and thank you. I mean it!
No problem, keep the faith and thanks for the concern.
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A warrior does not give up on what he loves, he finds the love in what he does
So did you end up taking off tonight and going to the movie? or are you and your W in a holding pattern? Sorry about the change of events. We will have to get together and chat sometime.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
yenk, that was so hard for me when curt was shot. I knew him so well, literally saw him buck naked back in the day lol, when he was dating my roomie. I always worry bout ya'll.
secret k? I am not that big or strong either.
thank u for being you, for what you do, for what you fight for, it means alot to me!
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
