I am experiencing a little Twilight zone episode. W just stopped by my work and gave me a new pair of pants that she bought for me.
I called her up after she drove off and asked why she is giving me gifts when we are getting a divorce. She said she wants me to look nice for all the ladies I am now seeing. I told her it makes me feel uncomfortable to have her give me things and she said it is just in her nature to buy me things. She now assumes that she wont have me to help her with her computer problems. I told her that she needs to become less dependent upon me because we are going to be divorced very soon.
Also, S8 was having emotional problems today concentrating at his day care house where he normally does advanced math. W thinks it is because he saw part of a funny scary movie (Killer Clowns from Outer Space) that D6 and I watched last weekend. I think it is because some kids at school were making fun of his mixed race appearance and that they think he looks like a girl he likes a lot in his class that is chinese. I told S8 to ask them to stop making fun of him and to try and understand how they would feel if they went to asia and all the kids there made fun of them because of the way they looked. I am going to send his teacher an email to see if she has noticed anything out of the ordinary.
Also, I think he is disturbed about the divorce and he wants to do some of the chemistry lab and rock crystal sets that I got for him, but he is staying with his mom for the 5 day stretch. He is a sensitive boy and I worry about him a lot. I will make some time by myself with him when they stay with me next Mon/Tue so as to have a good father and son talk. And I will take them to the beach the following weekend to have some fun.
