Tipper, You posted on my thread and I replied. But I wanted to come read your thread. (((( HUGS ))))
Your H sounds lost or confused, at least. Does he really want to work on the M? It sure doesn't sound like you're his first priority.
I think that focusing on yourself, and what makes you happy is a fantastic idea. Don't wait around for him. Life goes by too fast. Definitely GAL more, even it's just going out for a walk. When he calls, tell him you have plans, but don't tell him what. Be mysterious.
