My H is "confused" to the point of immobility. The fear of making a decision and it being the wrong one paralyzes them and when they have unresolved issues on top of the infidelity, that makes for a particularly nasty combination.
Same here. When we were both with the C, the C said she was paralyzed with fear. That she was afraid of making the wrong decision. So much alike.
Karen,
Still the LRT. Just a little nicer about it.
Last edited by yenko69; 10/11/0812:02 AM.
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