Send it!! He left it on purpose....he knows you go there to pick up or drop off the girls. He is just marking his territory and letting you know he was there!!! Just like the phones calls when you are picking up the girls. He knows what he is doing. time to get it out there!!!!
Did you drop his toothbrush in the toilet? Then put it back in the "kit". Did you spit in his aftershave? Did you switch the blades on his razor with your wife's? Just food for thought...
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Did you drop his toothbrush in the toilet? Then put it back in the "kit". Did you spit in his aftershave? Did you switch the blades on his razor with your wife's? Just food for thought...
kat
kat, I LOVE IT!
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
On the way to pick up D6, I noticed a missed call from the wife. VM said to just call her back. I called and got her VM. I left a short message that I was returning her call.
Back at work, I was getting ready to call her referral back now that my financial advisor was here. It's Y, so good for me. I get to flirt. She calls my work phone again. She asks if I was able to contact the lady. I tell her that I was calling her back again at that moment.
"Oh, okay. I was going to call her, but I guess she is in good hands, so I won't call her." "Yeah, but she said that she is probably only looking for a second opinion." "Oh, she is? Oh well. At least you get a referral credit, right?" "Yes. Thanks." I was being very short with her. She was trying to linger a bit." "Ok, well Y and I are going to call her." "Ok. I just called the girls. They are asleep. Both of them. I woke up Amanda. I told her to go back to sleep and that we won't bug them until we get there." "Ok." "Ok, well I'll let you go." "Bye." "Bye."
Until WE get there. Good luck to her. After work, I'm driving on the San Antonio Autobahn to get to the girls first and leave before she gets there. If she is there, I may start some drama. I know that I'm going to throw that bag in the trash when I get there.
Still not sure about sending the text. I really shouldn't give a crap. Not like I didn't know that he doesn't stay there sometimes. I'm actually pretty calm.
Not sure I'll be this calm if we are there together.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
H4H, I can't believe you left it there. I would have already taken it. If its DS then it would "magically" reappear, but if not...OH F'in WELL!!!!" If its still there when you get to the apt. I would take it and then send her the text because not only is OM being disrespectful, so is W.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
I do like the ideas Kat & everyone came up with. We should have more fun with DBing sometimes, and that sounds like fun. My ? is doesn't his leaving it there (we all know that was planned) show that OM is not confident? I mean couldn't that be considered a good sign. And yes, it was disrespectful of OM but when do they ever have respect for marriage and family? Your W should take him to task for that, but maybe she doesn't realize how disrespectful that is? Karen
