Bbj, I ve been watching you getting all worked up all the time he is away. You've been alone and replaying everything in your head. I agree with you and with what most friends have told you BUT, try to not lose your goal out of your sight.
You think you've been changing and you have been, I can remember all the discussions back months ago and your letter was definitely different. Still, I believe that if you attack him all you will get will be "what did I do worng this time? Haven't I been calling upbeat and caring? Havent I been contacting you? I was on business trip, you know that!!" You sent him the letter which I dont think he expected. Not a letter like that. To reply only would seem a lot of work to him. Give him the benefit of concetration and time. I am not a wimp and you know it, but I do think you are loosing your patience and you may end up somewhere based of very high expectations. Not high expectations for a ralationship, high expectations from DAN at this certain point. He needs to change. Change takes time. You are ahead of him by months now. Before you proceed to the "consequences" part, be calm within about it. Love K
