Oh sweetie....I'm so sorry. That is just the pits! It is only 9:30p there right? Could you ring him to meet up for a drink somewhere?
I'm not sure what else to tell you to do for him other than to be open to talking with him. If he's so stressed he needs an outlet. He knows you and you understand the work he does so that could be a comfort.
Just because he's self-sufficient doesn't mean that he doesn't need a shoulder.
It could be a bit dangerous though. With him being so low right now and you feeling vulnerable....you get the picture.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!