Wow, as a HD H, I would have a cardiac arrest if my wife followed this list (that is how I would like to die when it is my time, I might add). A few additions:

1. BJs, especially if you are good at them.
2. Trojan and Durex have vibrating cock rings that are about $8. They are really fun to add to #2 and for ML.
3. Nothing hotter to me than seeing a good looking woman dressed up in business attire...maybe it is the high heels and skirts.
4. I really like getting kissed by my wife, especially before going to work and really hate "getting the cheek."

Overall, I think part of the key is to stay creative and "build the bank" as you mentioned so that on off days he has nothing to complain about and he knows you are not backsliding into your old habits. Also, start getting the kids to bed earlier.

Lastly, if you know you are going to be busy with work or otherwise unable to do anything that night, I appreciate it when my wife tells me that during the day but adds something about making up for it the next night. The key is the part about making up for it the next night and then doing it (which my wife sucks at, hence my screen name).

Good luck!

CB


Me; 42, W; 43
M; 16 yrs
S12, D9

3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure"
5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"