Hi Lan - i hear what you're saying and fwiw I think you're spot on...I guess that while i am holding out hope here I am holding up a necessary process and laying myself down as a doormat along the way...

Well here is what I have on my plate right now:

House which needs a lot of work/diy - not just cosmetic - and we're heading into winter - clocks changing soon - arghhh

FT job with a cr@ppy commute

S6 - wonderful boy - usually spend 2 nights a week with him and lots of time over weekend - but want to get my place sorted out as soon as poss so he can come to me

Badminton twice weekly

Runs/swims to get in to keep me in with a chance of completing a few tris next year

PTA Christmas Fayre Programme to organise

School Holiday Camp to get off ground

Local playgroup treasurer role

just need the proverbial broom up my @rse to complete my life at the moment!

See - didn't mention W once!!! No time!!!

Thanks Lan...

KBO - GFI


Me: 40ish
W: 40ish
Together: 20 ish years
Married: 10ish Years