I think she's being as open as she can be without giving up the independence she craves so much, but it's not enough for me. And for her to give up the affair stuff would be her admitting that she cares what I think. And I just don't see that being compatable with her quest for independence right now.
H4U,
Actually, I was going to suggest this even before I read the above, but now all the moreso. And it's just a thought, but ....
Your wife strikes me as stubborn. I mean, hell-bent, OFF-THE-CHARTS stubborn. A lot like the fetching Mrs. Puppy, in fact.
Do you think she's maybe switching cellphones and numbers as a way to permanently get away from OM contact, but is just too stubborn to tell you? More broadly, do you think maybe she's giving you 100% no-contact and 100% transparency, but just isn't going to give YOU the satisfaction of having DONE it?????
My wife, I firmly believe, ended up getting that damned STD test that I fought her so much over, if you read my old sitch. I just think she wasn't willing to tell me.
