I'm reading all the time and I think that things are still looking pretty positive! Well done you for shutting your laptop and also, not initiating any R talks.. I thought it was interesting that he continued to IM you when you were a little aloof, or not as responsive. Is that a 180? Does that give him the space to miss you and think?

Although he is holding you at arms length, its brilliant that he is open to self-help books and counselling with Jody. I suppose it could just be a matter of time...you know, its interesting that date on your thread.. "S to be revisited 14th October" - is that still true!?? (thats Tuesday isnt it?)... thats a Full Moon in Aries!!! It will air differences, but its an important date in terms of saying what you do and dont want in an R.. I am trying to read more about it this weekend, but I thought it was interesting if you are planning to have an R talk that night.

Full moons bring things out into the open, illuminate things that needed to be aired, time of culminations and new beginnings. How that works out for you, I dont know, but perhaps you arent still planning to meet that day!?

Ali xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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