I am playing it extremely cool. I am not even mentioning my happiness and excitement with anyone except you on this board. i am watching ad doing "more of the same". I know there mayb set backs, but I am looking at this hard. In my mlc books, research and the DR book, all of them said to basically look for her to communicate with me and open up about things, more details in our conversation and not necessarily about our R. I am told to watch for her contact and take it lightly and cooly...Even if I have no contact with her till tuesday, that i fine. i have enought to do. I am not expecting any contact. I am just happy that I finally realized how much I have really changed, how I don't have to try anymore, I'm me. And the fact that I am seeing results from the advice on this board and the book.