It does sound like fun, and like something we've enjoyed together before. I'm still working on the IC (and so is he thank goodness! He had an appt today that he said, earlier this week, he was going to cancel. I just said, "I hope you don't" and let it be. He ended up going today and I told him I was very happy he went. And again, left it at that) -- but I'm digressing! Yes, I will still work with IC and know I need to get to the core of my issues. In the meantime, my H is giving me a chance to work on getting us to a place where we can consider reconciliation!
His issue is that he doesn't feel he should have to tell me what he needs since we've been married for 15 years. He is very upset that the OM didn't have to tell me what he needed, I just knew. I so get what he is saying -- I really do. It's complicated though, the OM was SO simple, it really wasn't hard to figure out what he needed. But I understand my H's point.
I don't want to mess this up so all ideas are welcome! Thank you! LL
