I still believe in miracles

[optimistwife]

Hi ITH,

I think it is a good idea that you booked the hotel room. I would guess his head is reeling right now, and that he is afraid to be around you too much. This way you are giving him some space.

I am not sure how your husband responds, but you sound very apologetic in your conversations with him a lot of the time. I tend to do this to- This isn't such a good thing for me (makes me sound needy and sorry for everything I'm doing), so just watch yourself. It may be fine for the state your H is in (enlightened and on top of everything

At least he realizes a little bit that he is edgy. I hope that you can find a balance and make this two weeks work!

I know what you mean when you say that you are on trial. Don't you feel like you have one shot at this, and you can screw up anywhere along the way and ruin it? In reality it takes more than a few mistakes, but you do feel like you are living on the edge...