In my case, I think I broke even w/ the extra money I got and the L's fees. I may have got more if we'd gone to court b/c I really didn't get a fair deal (according to my L), but I just wanted it to be finished.

It was worth it, though, because it made me feel stronger, like I didn't let XH do whatever the heck he wanted, like he usually does.


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