Amy C - I don't want to hijack this thread. I've read alot of your posts under MLC resources.

You have some really good information there. I'm conflicted in my situation. From a moral perspective I realize that nothing in the scriptures holds me to standing for my R with the ExW. Legally of course we are divorced so there is no legal tie.

Still, there was 30 years....and whole lot of love there. There are also new developments concerning the OM.

I know you don't have a crystal ball but you are sharp. I feel the need to express a few things and get your opinion.

New thread or continue one of my old ones? I know you're busy. Up for it?

Me- 47
W- 45
Married 22 years
Together 30 years
No Kids, 1 dog, 1 Cat
2005 - 2007 W in MLT
1/08 - Crisis hits
3/08 W drops Bomb and leaves in the middle of the night. Admits to PA
4/08 W files for divorce
8/08 Divorce final