LL - I suggest you copy this post over to the SSM forum. There are a lot more "sex" topics over there and also lots of men who would love to tell their wives what she could do to express more sexual desire...they will tell you some great suggestions, I would suppose. I have a few of my own as well to share with you, but this part of the forum doesn't seem appropriate. So many people here are hurting and focused on thier current painful experiences.

DQ