Plans are set, financing is in the works. The builder is willing to start the foundation even before we close on the loan. So it looks like we will own a very expensive hole in the ground some time in the couple of weeks. Yes!

W continues to fight with her friend about reconciling with me and her friend's continued contact with XOM. I am simply trying to stay supportive. As much as I resent her friend's actions regarding our M, I don't see any point in trash talking her. I suspect their friendship has a poor prognosis anyway.

Last night we talked a lot about the situation that made her vulnerable to her A, and both of our contributions to the near-death of our M. We have both done a lot of growing up through all this. I am growing more confident each day neither of us will fall back into those destructive patterns. After our talk we ML, felt wonderful, slept like a baby.


Me45 W35 M6 T8
D16 SD11 D0
Dec 07: Bomb
July 08: Busted!
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