The hardest thing about being around the sister is knowing that she used to "help" them sneak around. So I don't think much of her either. It's hard knowing she condoned the affair. Of course I've heard that this sister has been involved with married men also. So it's obvious these sisters do not have a moral conscience.
During homecoming one of the OW's friend's(actually I don't know how close they are anymore) daughter was also on court. The night the parents had to help decorate, the friend was there. The friend's daughters and mine used to play softball together when they were young. I could tell she was uncomfortable. I was friendly to her because I knew she had nothing to do with the affair. As a matter of fact she was called as a character witness at the divorce/custody hearing of the OW and H. The judge asked her what she thought about OW's actions and she said,"I think she made some poor choices." She was supposed to be a character witness for the OW for custody! The friend's H said told OW's exH that the friend didn't even know they were involved until she got to the courthouse that day and saw me and then put it together.
What these WAS don't understand is how they affect not only their marriages, but it extends to their children, family, and friends.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon