I just hope he finishes that Midlife crisis book, and reads the part on relationships. He is so susceptible to every self-help book, and this one actually says that relationships are the greatest opportunity to grow etc. It talks about how people in MLCs tend to blame their partners for everything, when really the problems are being projected in most cases...it's really very positive. I checked where his bookmark was(yes, snooping) and he's about 50 pages away from it still. Fingers crossed he'll read it between now and Thursday.
Also, I booked a hotel and sent him the link. Up to him now whether he wants to tell me to cancel it and save the money.
Yeah it's nice that H noticed he was mean. He does notice about 50% of the time when I am extra nice in response. If I am not completely 100% calm, then he will blame me.
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
