Sandi, everyone, friends of hers especially that have spoken to me have made ther same comment about missing me and the great times, especially holidays. They tol me several weeks ago that the holidays will be in my favor in regards to getting her to come back or at least missing me. One of her friends had gone throught this and indicated that if i gave me time, did things to make everything about me and the house less stressful and with the holidays, that she most likely will want to go home. No signs of that yet, with the exception of my birthday greeting text and her falling apart monday on my anniversary. Again yesterday was monumental. I can't help talking about it to myself. It wasn't the topics, it wass the details. she was discussing her brakes, her car, her finances, how they screwed up her paycheck, her fathers party, our D b'day...You know what I mean. And no text. text and email are the reason we got this far I believe. No face to face communication, so no emotion about our issues. But now, she wants to talk on the phone. she talked to her mom last night and told her she talked to me and that I said her brtakes will be fine until tuesday and what not. Again, my plans are for the weekend and what needs to be done. I am excited about my weekend for the first time since this happened. I want more of the same from her. If the camper sells, I do have an obligation to help her, I believe, So I may pay her other car payment if it sells, in two weeks to catch her up a little, not totally, but some....If this postive signs continue. she throguh me a bone, I wil throw one back.
