I have no clue. I really wish we didn't have kids (OK, NOT REALLY BUT IN THIS CONTEXT!) so I could just kick him out for now and not have to think about it...

I had the kids call H last night to say goodnight. He was in the restaurant having dinner. They said goodnight, I only had about 30 seconds b/c he was busy. Which was fine.

I texted him an hour later to see if he was still at dinner. He replied that he was just about done. I replied back that I would be up for another hour or so, was just thinking about him...

He never replied, called, nothing.... Okay that is dramatic. My response was more like \:\(

So I figure he is just choosing not to give me what I want. I don't believe in "can't" at this point, like when some say "he can't give you what he doesn't have". My H is self-aware enough to admit that he knows what he should be doing, he just "doesn't do it", in his own words.

I sent him a very carefully, lovingly thought-out letter, I asked him to take some time to think about it, I have continued to reach out to him, I just feel completely ignored. As though I am just not important enough to H to be worth the effort.

And that is not acceptable.

Me-35

Together: 18 yrs
M-12.5 yrs
S-8
D-4
D'd: Feb. 2010

The LORD your God is with you,
he is mighty to save. --Zeph. 3:17