Hey everyone. Things at home are still pretty decent. W still excited about the trip and still engaging me more and more.

But....and there's always a but.....How do you deal with the triggers when your W has not made a commitment to the marriage so she helps you through them?

W told me last night she was going to go shopping Sat because she needs a couple new bra's. Totally legit, she only has one that fits now. But her going shopping was always one of the excuses she used to go see OM when he was in town so it's a huge trigger for me.

So how do you get through them?


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.