anyway she FINALY came to pick it up. she was realy diffrent she kept telling me I looked good and asking if I was happy. She asked me that 3 times in our 5 min conversation. I just told her variations on the theme " W I work on myself every day." I dont know why she askes or even cares at this point but I wont look a free gift of a chanch to be positive around her in the mouth!
