Hi Daisy,

Great update. It seems like most of us LBSs have control and thus anxiety issues. Glad you're learning some techniques to deal with it.

Your IC could be right about your H in terms of how he's feeling right now, but this doesn't mean that he won't feel differently once you're together. Your DBing and IC work can really shine through when you're under the same roof. I also don't think your H would consider moving in with you if he didn't think there was at least a reasonable chance for reconciliation. All these WASs seem to feel so guilty that I don't believe they'd knowingly lead us on.

Are you going to be seeing your H much between now and Tuesday?

Seems like you and I are in somewhat similar sitches at the moment in terms of some kind of living together being suddenly back on the table, and more interaction.

Hope all continues to go well Daisy. Keep the faith. We're all rooting for you!

ITH


Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years
Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be
S 07/28/08-11/08/08
Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!