she liked different salad dressing than I did. I didn't use the stuff she bought. End of story. Same with the mop. She bought one. I didn't use it. (I washed the floors by hand. When our babies were little, crawling around, I didn't think the mop did a good enough job). The end. We did not fight about the mop.
Ha Ha Ha Ha That is the funniest thing i have heard today and without being mean and just a little objective I think i can see your wifes point of view. SPM - why would you care about salad dressing or floor mops. Men don't care about that stuff. Well us woman don't want you to care. Unless your allergic - just eat it and just clean the B&^%$y floor. By not using the mop it says - you undermind the one area where she is boss and thats the home. Tiny little thing but can be monumental when your life is your home. It is these little things that she could be pointing to as being contoling . Nothing to you , lots to her. Perhaps you should make a list of every little thing you disagreed on, no matter how insignificant you felt it was. You may find some insightful ideas about changing your perspective on what is and what isn't controlling behavior and it may give you some areas to work on.
Sorry if this sounds all bossy. Put a smile on my face tonight though.
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I'm not really happy about having zero sex life, though.
Yes this is a problem. I find myself looking enviously at couples now and wishing I had a partner to take home and play with. I know i could if i wanted with H somedays but I think we have agreed that , this would not be for the best.
Interesting about looking good as well. I know you need to look good and have great personality to attract but once you have someones interest I think body imagine becomes less of a concern. It is only needed to attract like a flower to a bee. Men have less to worry about as girls are not sooooo hung up about it.
What was the OM like in your wifes life. My OM was very different and people who know i had a EA ( no one but myself, OM and H no full truth )are shocked that I choose him over my H. They really are bewildered BUT to me SPM he offered far more than looking good. His appeal was in the attention he gave and everything he said.
Can I change my name on this site now that i have started ?
Where are you placed with visitation now ? Always fight and never give an inch on your time and place with your kids! Not an inch !
