I will NLT. It is best not to share with others. You are right, they would never understand. My sis has called me a few times asking how everything is going. I haven't returned her calls yet, but need to.
Partly because I don't want to get into any convos about h. She would never understand my position. She has never been M or has never had any kids.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
You are so right, they all just think he has done me so wrong, and he has but it doesn't mean that I stopped loving him. He is a good person, he just lost his mind. I truely believe if he had not moved on this so fast & the OW had not rushed him we wouldn't be here now. But if's, and's & but's are in the past & what it is now is real even tho I wake up sometimes & think that it's just a bad dream, no a nightmare!!! I feel like a soap opera!! In fact, I was talking to a friend of mine the other day & she said my H's life does sound like a soap opera where OW will trick them & lie to them just to get them away from their wife or husband. I feel like that has happened with my H. One of these days, just maybe.
I'm at my parents house, I'm actually making it pretty good so far. I'm still very sad about our anniversary being tomorrow & I'm sure I won't hear from ex. This is the first one since the D. But I kind of have a peace b/c I still can't imagine my life without him. It's just something I feel, I could be wrong. I'm sure tomorrow won't be easy tho. He always made it such a special day!!!
I am glad you are at your parents. It will help you so much.
I am sure they will take good care of you.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Yes, they will take good care of me!!! They are so wonderful!!!
I'm still kind of dreading the class reunion & going without my H but I guess I can't do anything about it & there are some friends who really want me to be there so I'll go.
Go to the reunion and have a great time. Sometimes you can have more fun if you go alone and meet up with old friends and joke and talk about old times. My h would be bored silly if I took him to mine. I missed my 30th which was a few weeks ago.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
I am sorry you are feeling so down. I will be thinking about you tomorrow. Next month will be my second anniversary without my H. It does bring back many memories.
I do believe that your ex will be thinking about you also. I don't know how they don't. Try to keep yourself busy tomorrow and pray when you need to.
God Bless
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Thank you for thinking & praying for me today! I sure do need it. I'm alone with the dogs right now, my parents took my aunt to the doctor & I really didn't want to go. I will help my Dad do some things around here & then tonight one of his cousins died so I will go to the funeral home with them. Not like 16 years ago for sure. Our wedding was at 3pm on a Saturday, we were so happy!!
It rained during the wedding, my grandmother told me that the old saying was if it rained on your wedding day that was how many tears you would cry. I never thought that would come true but it has.
Hugs NLT. I know this is a very sad day for you. Try to not get yourself too down. Remember the happy times of your m and have comfort in knowing that for the most part your m did work.
Just pray today for you and your h and that his eyes will be opened.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
