I'm again getting to that point that I WANT to move on. Life is too short and I'm not getting any younger. I've got WAY to much to offer. Day by day. He will lead me where I'm supposed to go.
I feel the same way about things right now. The only way to go is forward.
I'm there too. It always surprises me how much everyone here seems to go through the same stuff at the same time. H4H, I think you might want to back off and detach if not for your R, then for you. You know we're supposed to do what works so if being good friends to your W isn't working esp. for you, then maybe LRT would be a good idea? Of course, I say this when you know I am horrible at that myself!!!
I can't believe I just typed that. Can you come over to my thread sometime and give me the same advice???? Karen
Aren't we all great at giving advice and sucky at taking our own. I know I am.
Strangely, I feel fine, karen. If I detach any more from her, I'll have to look at pictures of us to remind myself of who she is
I wish.
What I'm really struggling with is totally letting her go and taking a different path. For myself. Testing the waters, so to speak. The same thing I've BEEN struggling with. Tonight just made the other side that much better looking.
She is just a broken person that I really don't think is worth the effort anymore. She deserves what she has and that is pretty much nothing.
I think I'll always leave the light on for her, but enough is enough.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
Karen 
