Txmom so you survived. Ok you had some slips but it was a tough day. Maybe to DB don't call him tomorrow since you celebrated today but send him a text message, saying Happy Birthday enjoy your day just to let him know you are thinking of him but not calling.
Your right about why do we have to be nice -- I feel like that many days but right now that is all we can do. What is the alternative, hating, hating ourselves and convincing ourselves we need to move on and regrets later. We decide when we have enough.
Hoping T2L is having a good day and it is going to "plan"
tomorrow is another day and with God's help we will do well


Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09