It is possible H will say this is not working. In that case, he has to leave. I am not uprooting myself and my children from the home I chose for us when I thought H was possibly not coming back. We got this house without him (his name on the loan, but you know what I mean, I chose it for me and the kids).
If he says it is not working, I will ask him what he thinks WILL work. Then we will go from there.
I know for a fact that H will not be happy without me. He may have to find that out the hard way. Whatever is wrong with him, it is not me, it is not our children, it is something he will have to figure out.
