I'm glad that its " sorta " working for you. I also understood what Bagheera and Strong said, I do. I'm also seeing the whole point where she's doing this to maybe start having more sex, and obviously she wants to work on things, thus getting you to try different ways. It would maybe even be almost kinda fun......... Here is the only part I didn't really get. . . .
I could understand it if you were to try and she said something like > " Sorry, no go....... roll over, better luck next time " Kiss on the cheek kinda thing. What I don't get is why there has to be punishment attached to what sounds like a learning experience. Why the " couch " if your wrong. I know Strong disagreed with me, but this is the ONLY part I don't much care for. I do now understand the point of the 365 days, and love the fact that you are getting feedback. Just don't much get the punishment aspect as you put it. If I'm misunderstanding that part, please tell me.
At the end of the day, its YOU, who has to be OK with it. IF your happy, and see the point to it, or see the good to come out of it, I say go for it, and good luck. If it works let me know. Ill suggest it to my husband. (( minus the couch ))
Good luck with asking her to spend time on the couch with you, I liked that, it was cute..
(( minus the couch )) 
