I am glad you thought about this long and hard. Having NC to detach to a health place is "THE RIGHT CHOICE". It is very import for you to get to a point where you will be OK without him.
I posted this to Joe earlier today, but I think it applies to all of us:
Originally Posted By: Ready2Change
I believe we need to get to a point where we treat S like we would a stranger. We also need to get to a point where we treat strangers very kindly. Then, IF S shows interest in us, we can slowly start treating S better than anyone else we know.....
I am having so much fun opening doors for ladies. Smiling at ladies. Complimenting ladies. Listening to ladies. Remembering there names. Paying attention to details about there lives.....
GAL
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