fib what book says we do all the clothing and make up stuff for you guys...well it is true...so if she really did get all hot looking.....she did it hoping to affect you....that is so true...i cant even tell u the times I have tried to look good for my h, only to fell invisible...then i drive through the toll booth and the man says Hi beautiful and I think wow .....i feel like chopped liver..he has no idea how far that compliment went to make me feel like I am not invisible...anyway back to your wife women really want to be desirable to their man....