W seems to be fishing for what I am doing in my spare time. She left a message this morning asking if I would teach S8 this Saturday how to grow crystals but nervously acknowleged that I may have other plans. She will probably ask again when she calls me this afternoon and I will just say that I am going to be out of town on Saturday. I know her and she will press for more. I will just have to say it is personal and that I had my Saturday planned from earlier this week.
Kalni, I am not really dating just for fun - my goal is to find the special someone to love and grow old together with. Someone to share a family with. Dating many women can get to be a drag because you always have to go through the same get to know you stage. I believe in destiny and I hope my intuitions are right - G40 seems special and she seems to like me a lot just as I like her. She has even told me recently that she wants to have a relationship with me that possibly leads to marriage someday.
There was no way for me to have figured my W would have turned out as she had and I would marry the person she was again, but after a much longer dating period. I am so thankful to have had a good marriage with her for over 8 years regardless of some of her faults. We still have 2 great kids that will always be ours.
This weekends day trip to duck land should be interesting. I am looking forward to meeting G40's brother as he works for a software company (which I had done contract project for) and is in an interracial marriage just as I. Her daughter (4) has talked a few times with me on the phone and she sure is not very shy. This little girls father has not seen her for over 3 years which is something that I just cannot relate with. That guy must be a real piece of...
