Well, SS did NOT come out this past Monday-it got moved to next Monday.
I found out because I saw H online so I sent him an IM asking him to have SS call. H told me our refund check came (THANK GOD!). He talked a little Spanish; said he's been really busy- I said I have been too. Neither one of us asked for details. It was friendly and light. So, that was good. No talk of "filing online" or whatever. I know we'll need to address that at some point in the future, but I don't feel like I have my ducks in a row yet.
I have a pretty good lead on a seller/buyer. She seems to like me a lot, so staying hopeful there.
So, glad that the conundrum on what to do about SS has been solved; super glad to hear the refund check arrived; been getting out and staying busy..4 out of the last 6 days.
I still don't want to get a D, but time for me to get out of denial and quit casting the pearls before the swine. (Or however that saying goes.)
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing