Hi all, as I write this maybe T2L is on the jumbo ride! TxMom, Sounds nice getting the cake and make sure H does take it with him. Like that. Maybe OW will throw it at him. What to write on the card. I would not write the 4 letter word "love", Maybe, "wishing you much happiness and joy on this very special day with your girls", you do not have to specify "what girls". Nice enough tough and then step back You seem to have the same situation as me. An H that has been coming/calling and acting like a friend. I will take this as long as I can and try and be a "friend" back and meet those emotional needs. Once I feel that I am being used or start to resent the whole situation then I will have to go to Plan B. I am terrified but for now I take one day at a time. Yes, God has a plan for us. God is working on my H because he hates divorce. for what I need to do is step back and work on myself and stand for my marriage. From these message boards I see it is possible. I pray for that for our marriages.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
