Hi Joie, I have never posted to you or even read any of your old posts, but I see your piecing with an alcoholi H and so am I.
I am struggeling badly to accept all of his changes since he left me and started drinking so much.
I have told him in the past I dont like the amount he drinks or the amount of time he spends at the bars. He understood and made some small efforts to slow down, but now after 6 months of piecing he is still going to the bars almost every day.
He will blow me off and cancel our plans to hang with his buddies and he drinks and drives a lot. He has gotten three different warnings for dwi, but never has been charged.
When he messes up and blows me off or gets caught with dwi, he is always so loving and apologetic. He knows what he is doing is bad, but he refuses to call it a problem and get help.
I just dont know what to do anymore. I never know who he is with or what he is doing until afterwards. He usually will try to come see me every night after he is done drinking for several hours. I have finally gotten to the point where I have started to decline him coming over on those evenings after he blows me off and changes our preset plans. oh and I should mention he doesnt want to move back in with me just so that he can still have his apartment next to all the bars in our town.
I dont know if you have any advice for me or not, but it is worth the shot. Thanks, TIPPER
