No, you did not backslide. Obviously, this is a time that she could use some support. She reached out to you for a reason. I have not read your sitch, but maybe a phone call would not be amiss, either. I do not know who has the kids, etc. But there may be something that she needs your help on and is too afraid to ask under the circumstances.
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Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7