San, i went out on the ledge, and asked H to go. altho, you and I are in diff sitches right now, but I did it. that was a 180 for me. he did the we'll see thing. then he did suprise me and say lets go. mind you, I MADE SURE he knew what the movie was about first. then reminded him before we bought tickets, I didnt need him thinking I was pressuring him, (i didnt know at that time where he was himself, that came yesterday, and not by him) H and I both shed tears during the movie. I do think it helped US, but I did it at a time, where we NEEDED to see it, you might want to wait just a bit longer, but I believe you will know when the exact time is right!! great big proud hugs for you!!
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
