I agree with Karen, you want to wait a couple of days and then re-examine everything. If she really stops seeing OM and consistently goes to C, do you see it having a chance? Of course if she isn't committed to doing any of that then I can see where you are. Marriage is about the good times and bad but I know it really does take two willing and trying participants. If you need or want to chat just holler.

kat


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